How to Set Realistic Goals for Bible Reading and Prayer

Setting realistic goals for Bible reading and prayer is important for creating a consistent and meaningful spiritual life. Many of us begin with good intentions. We want to dive deep into Scripture and spend extended hours in prayer, only to find ourselves overwhelmed and discouraged when we can’t maintain such a demanding routine. That’s why it’s important to start with realistic goals for Bible reading and prayer that fit into our daily lives, then slowly build a habit we can continue that leads to spiritual growth.

In this blog post, I want to help you set and achieve realistic, manageable goals for Bible reading and prayer. 

By starting small and gradually increasing your commitment, you can create a strong foundation for a deeper connection with God. 

I’ll provide practical steps and tips to help you overcome common challenges and stay motivated on your spiritual journey. 

Whether you’re just beginning or looking to rejuvenate your current practices, this guide will equip you with the tools you need to succeed.


How to Set Realistic Goals for Bible Reading and Prayer

Table of Contents

 I. Why you Need to Set Realistic Goals


Many people begin their spiritual journeys wanting to deeply engage with Scripture and commit extensive time to prayer. 

However, life’s demands make it hard to keep such demanding routines. 

Setting realistic goals allows for a more balanced approach, making sure that spiritual practices are included into daily life rather than becoming overwhelming tasks.

Realistic goals help you maintain more consistency in your Bible reading, which is crucial for spiritual growth. 


Why Realistic Goals Are Essential


Setting realistic goals for Bible reading and prayer is important because it allows your spiritual practices to match the realities of daily life. 

Unrealistic goals can lead to disappointment and discouragement, wich can lead to slow or stop your spiritual growth. 

On the other hand, realistic goals create a sense of accomplishment and motivation. This then encourages you to continue your spiritual journey with confidence.


Gradually build a habit that fits your lifestyle


By setting achievable goals, such as reading a few verses or praying for a short period each day, you can gradually build a habit that fits your lifestyle. 

This approach prevents you from starting out strong but then quickly fizzling out because you set unrealistic goals. 

If you can understand this process, it will be easier to give yourself grace and patience during your process. This in turn then helps you foster a a more sustainable Bible reading habit.

Realistic goals also have the benefit of being flexible due to changes that may happen in your life. 

On busy days, having a realistic goal helps make Bible reading and prayer a priority rather than being skipped altogether. 

This keeps you spiritually engaged and helps you have steady growth and a deeper, more consistent relationship with God over time.


Helps in managing expectations


Setting realistic goals also helps in managing expectations. Spiritual growth is a gradual process, and setting attainable targets ensures that individuals remain patient and persistent. 

This approach prevents you from burnout and helps you keep a steady pace of growth, allowing for deeper and more meaningful spiritual experiences. 

Realistic goals give you a practical plan for growing spiritually, making sure that reading the Bible and praying fit well into your daily routine. This helps keep your spiritual life healthy in the long run and brings you closer to God.


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Common Pitfalls of Setting Overly Ambitious Goals


Setting overly ambitious goals for Bible reading and prayer often leads to several common pitfalls that can impede spiritual growth. 

  • Increases The risk of burnout: When people set goals that are too demanding, such as reading multiple chapters daily or praying for extended periods, they may find it difficult to maintain these practices over time. This can lead to feelings of failure and discouragement, causing them to stop their spiritual routines altogether.
  • Inconsistent: Goals are often unrealistic, leading to irregular engagement with spiritual practices. When individuals can’t meet their high expectations, they might skip sessions or reduce their frequency. This then disrupts their habit keeps them from forming a consistent habit, and makes it harder to grow spiritually.
  • Can create a sense of obligation rather than joy: When spiritual practices become tasks to be checked off a list, the focus shifts from a personal and enjoyable connection with God to just finishing a task. This can decrease the meaning of the practice and turn it into a burden.
  • This can lead to a quantity over quality: People who make unrealistic goals might rush through Bible reading or prayer just to meet their targets, missing the opportunity for deeper reflection and understanding. This approach can prevent meaningful understanding and connection with Scripture and can prevent people from having a rich, and thoughtful prayer life.

II. Starting Small: The Foundation of Habit Building


Starting with a manageable amount of reading and prayer time is important for creating a sustainable spiritual routine. 

Many people may feel overwhelmed at the prospect of dedicating large blocks of time to these practices, leading to procrastination or inconsistency. 

By starting small, individuals can ease into their spiritual journey without feeling intimidated or burdened by unrealistic expectations.


Recommended Starting Point: 


Many people ask how to start. I would recommend starting to read The Bible and praying for 10-15 minutes each day. 

This timeframe strikes a balance between being achievable and meaningful. 

It allows individuals to engage with Scripture and connect with God without feeling rushed or pressured. 

If you have already tried starting with 10-15 minutes a day but find it too hard, then lower your goal to 2-5 minutes a day, and then slowly increase the amount over a couple of weeks or months. 

There is no rule or commandment over how much time we should spend in God’s word, but we want to make sure we are building a habit we can keep that we enjoy! 


How Starting Small Builds Consistency and Reduces Burnout


Builds consistency:


Starting small builds consistency by making the practice more manageable and less daunting. 

When tasks are too overwhelming, we may think we don’t have time to finish the task so we procrastinate or avoid it altogether. 

But this leads to inconsistency in our spiritual walk with God. 

When we begin with a smaller time commitment, we are more likely to follow through which then leads to a sustainable habit over the long term.


Reduces the likelihood of burnout:


When you set ambitious goals, you may experience fatigue or frustration if you can’t meet them. 

This can lead to feelings of failure, which then can cause you to stop reading The Bible and praying altogether. 

By starting with small manageable goals, you can avoid burnout and experience a sense of accomplishment as you slowly increase your commitment over time.


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III. Gradually Increasing Time and Commitment


Gradually increasing time to reading The Bible and praying is important for having consistent growth and deepening your relationship with God. 

Just as physical exercise requires gradual progression to build strength slowly increasing the time spent with The Lord can create a sustainable habit that helps you grow over time.



Why is it Important to gradually Increase Your Habits


Gradual growth allows for steady progress and prevents overwhelm.

 When you try to make drastic changes all at once, it can be challenging to maintain consistency and motivation. 

By gradually increasing your time and commitment, you can adapt more easily to the changes and integrate them into your daily routine. 

This process gives you a sense of accomplishment and encourages you to continue investing in your spiritual growth.



6 Tips for Graduall Growth


  1. Create a Routine: Create a consistent schedule for your spiritual practices, such as reading the Bible and praying at the same time each day.
  2. Use Reminders: Set alarms or reminders on your phone or calendar to prompt you to dedicate time to reading and prayer each day.
  3. Adding just 5 minutes:  A good way to slowly spend more time reading and praying is to add 5 minutes each week or month, depending on what works best for you and how busy you are.
  4. Be Flexible: Allow yourself some flexibility in your schedule to accommodate changes or unexpected events while still prioritizing your spiritual practices.
  5. Stay Consistent: Commit to your reading and prayer routine even on days when you don’t feel motivated or when life gets busy. Consistency is key to forming a lasting habit.
  6. Monitor your progress: Monitoring your progress and adjusting as needed allows you to stay accountable and make changes as needed along the way.


You can do this by keeping track of the time you spend reading and praying each day and thinking about how it impacts your spiritual life. 


If you find that you’re consistently struggling to meet your goals or feeling burnt out, consider scaling back or reevaluating your approach.


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IV. Setting Specific, Measurable Goals


Setting specific, measurable goals is important for noticeable progress in any area of life, including spiritual growth. 

These types of goals provide clarity and direction, making it easier to track your progress and stay motivated. 

By setting specific and measurable goals for your reading and prayer, you can make sure you are making noticeable progress toward your spiritual goals.


How to Create Specific and Measurable Goals


Creating specific and measurable goals involves knowing exactly what you want to accomplish and how you will know when you have achieved it. 

For example, instead of setting a vague goal like “read more,” you could set a specific goal to “read one chapter of the Bible daily” or “spend 10 minutes in prayer each morning.” 

These goals are clear, actionable, and easy to track, allowing you to measure your progress over time.


Example 1: Read One Chapter of the Bible Daily

This goal is specific because it outlines exactly what you want to do (read one chapter of the Bible) and how often you want to do it (daily). It is measurable because you can easily track whether or not you have completed the task each day.

Example 2: Spend 10 Minutes in Prayer Each Morning

This goal is specific (spend 10 minutes in prayer) and measurable (you can track whether or not you have spent the allotted time in prayer each morning).


Make SMART Goals


Write down your goals using SMART Goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound)


This means that your goals should be:

  • Specific: Clearly defined and easy to understand.
  • Measurable: Able to be tracked and quantified.
  • Achievable: Realistic and attainable given your resources and constraints.
  • Relevant: Relevant to your overall objectives and aligned with your values.
  • Time-bound: Have a specific timeframe for completion.



Take a moment to reflect on your progress….. or lack of it


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VI. Overcoming Challenges and Staying Motivated


Overcoming challenges and staying motivated to read your Bible and pray are important to help you stay consistent in spiritual practice. 

Even though we want to have a consistent Bible-reading habit, we can often face several obstacles that make it difficult to prioritize these activities. 

By identifying common challenges and implementing effective strategies, people can overcome these obstacles and keep feeling inspired in their spiritual path.


Common Challenges in Maintaining Bible Reading and Prayer Routines


Several common challenges can hinder individuals from maintaining consistent Bible reading and prayer routines. 

  • Time constraints Busy schedules and different priorities can make it challenging to find dedicated time for spiritual practices. 
  • Distractions and a lack of focus: These can disrupt our efforts to engage meaningfully with Scripture and prayer. 
  • Decreased motivation: This may happen over time, which then can lead to inconsistency in spiritual habits.

Strategies for Overcoming These Obstacles


These challenges are very common and there are several strategies you can use to overcome them and stay motivated in reading The Bible and praying.

  • Setting a specific time and place for Bible reading and prayer can help establish a routine and minimize distractions. 
  • Accountability partners or groups provide support and encouragement, holding you accountable for your commitments. 
  • Reflecting on the benefits of reading The Bible, praying, and staying connected to your faith can help you stay motivated and create a deeper spiritual connection.



V. Helpful Tools and Resources


Having the right tools can help increase your enjoyment and experience reading The Bible and praying. This makes it easier to stay consistent and engaged in your spiritual practices. 



1. Bible Reading Plans


Bible reading plans provide structured schedules for reading through the Bible in a systematic way. 

These plans often break down the Bible into manageable portions, such as daily readings or readings for specific themes or topics. 

Whether you prefer to read through the entire Bible in a year or focus on specific books or themes, there are a variety of reading plans available to suit your preferences.


2. Bible study workbooks


Bible study workbooks offer structured guidance and insights into Scripture that can deepen your understanding and connection with God. 

These workbooks typically provide a combination of study questions, reflections, and practical applications tailored to specific passages or themes in the Bible.

One of the key benefits of using Bible study workbooks is their systematic approach to studying Scripture. They often break down complex passages into manageable sections, guiding readers through a step-by-step exploration of the text. 

This structured format not only helps individuals grasp the meaning and context of the Bible more effectively but also encourages personal reflection and application of its teachings to everyday life.



3. Devotional Guides


Devotional guides offer daily readings, reflections, and prayers to help you connect with God and deepen your understanding of Scripture. 

These guides often include insightful commentary, questions for reflection, and suggestions for prayer, making them valuable resources for personal growth and spiritual nourishment.



Bible Apps with Reminders and Tracking Features


Bible apps with reminders and tracking features can help you stay organized and accountable in your Bible reading and prayer habits. 

These apps allow you to set reminders for daily readings or prayer times, track your progress through reading plans, and access a variety of Bible translations and study resources all in one place.



How to Pick Resources That Fit Your Lifestyle 


When selecting resources for Bible reading and prayer, it’s important to consider your lifestyle, preferences, and spiritual goals. 

Choose tools that align with your preferred reading format (digital or print), time constraints, and level of engagement. 

Make sure to look for resources that complement your spiritual interests and help you grow in your relationship with God. 

Experiment with different tools and approaches to find what works best for you, and don’t be afraid to adapt or change your routine as needed to stay motivated and connected in your spiritual journey.



Take a moment to reflect on your progress….. or lack of it


Fill in the form below and take a simple FREE questionnaire to evaluate your current Bible reading and prayer habits

Discover the Power of Self-Reflection for Spiritual Growth

VII. Reflecting and Adjusting Goals as Needed


Reflecting on your goals and adjusting them as needed is an important part of your spiritual journey. 

I would encourage you to reflect on your habits on a semi-regular basis. At the start of your journey, I encourage you to reflect on your process once a week. 

Then, as your habit is more established, you can start reflecting every month, or every 4-6 months. 

This allows you to assess your progress, identify areas for improvement, and make necessary adjustments to your goals to better align with your evolving needs and circumstances.



How to Evaluate What’s Working and What Isn’t


When evaluating your goals, think about what parts of your spiritual practices are having a positive effect on your growth and what may be hindering your progress. 

Look for patterns in your behaviour, thoughts, and emotions, and identify any areas where you may need to make changes. 

This could involve assessing the effectiveness of your current routines, resources, or approaches to Bible reading and prayer.



Questions to ask yourself


  1. How consistent have I been with my Bible reading and prayer habits recently?
  2. Have I noticed any changes in my attitude or emotions during my Bible reading and prayer times?
  3. What aspects of my spiritual practices have been particularly fulfilling or challenging?
  4. Have I encountered any obstacles or distractions that have hindered my Bible reading and prayer routine?
  5. How have my spiritual goals evolved since I last reflected on my progress?
  6. Do I feel spiritually nourished and connected after engaging in Bible reading and prayer?
  7. Are there any specific areas of Scripture that I’ve struggled to understand or apply to my life?
  8. Have I been intentional about incorporating prayer into different aspects of my day?
  9. Have I experienced any moments of spiritual growth or insight during my Bible reading and prayer sessions?
  10. What changes can I make to my routine or approach to better align with my spiritual aspirations and priorities?


Adjusting Goals 


As your spiritual journey continues, your goals may change over time.

Be open to adjusting your goals to better align with your current priorities, interests, and challenges. 

This may involve refining your objectives, setting new targets, or even letting go of goals that are no longer serving you. 

By staying flexible and responsive to your changing needs, you can ensure that your goals continue to support your spiritual growth and development.



Be Flexible and Patience with Yourself


Finally, it’s important to be flexible and patient with yourself as you reflect on your goals and make adjustments. 

Growth takes time, and it’s normal to encounter setbacks or obstacles along the way. 

Be kind to yourself, and remember that progress is not always linear. 

Embrace the journey, and trust that each step you take, whether big or small, is bringing you closer to your spiritual aspirations.




Setting realistic goals for Bible reading and prayer is important for creating a consistent and meaningful spiritual life. Many of us begin with good intentions. 

We want to dive deep into Scripture and spend extended hours in prayer, only to find ourselves overwhelmed and discouraged when we can’t maintain such a demanding routine. 

That’s why it’s important to start with realistic goals for Bible reading and prayer that fit into our daily lives, then slowly build a habit we can continue that leads to spiritual growth.

To help you get started on this journey- make sure to fill out the form below and take a simpler Self-Assessment questionnaire that will help you evaluate your current Bible reading and prayer habits. 




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